As a former public school teacher and wife to a teacher I know all about the pros and cons of school. Yet, I have had to make peace with our decision. I am not saying I am one of those moms who relishes the start of school. I miss my children terribly when they are gone.
This year all three of my older children are attending school, and people have said how nice it will be just to have one child at home all day. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy my little guy, but this week has been so quiet around here. I have to admit that I have had a hard time adjusting to the older kids being gone. Once we get back into the routine I know things will be fine. It is the getting to that point that is hard.
It can be hard to be a Christian parent trying to teach Christian values to my children while they are gone from me at school. However, I am here to say that they are learning so much about how to put what we have taught them into practice.
Take my 11 year old daughter Julia (a 6th grader this year) for example. On her first day of Kindergarten she was asked by her teacher to play with a little boy who was having some trouble adjusting. She ended up being a big help with him all year. There were times when the only person who could get him to respond appropriately was my daughter. That was a big responsibiliy for a little girl, but she did it with a smile.
When she was in third grade a dear friend had moved away. She didn't know who to play with and would sometimes play by herself. I worried about her, but she said she was fine because she liked herself. She also said that some of the kids were playing things that she didn't think were appropriate, so she thought it was better to play by herself.
Julia has always been well-liked by both her teachers and the other children. She always treats everyone with kindness. She befriends the girls that aren't popular instead of trying to be popular herself.
My almost 8 year old son James is in 2nd grade this year. He is such a good student and a well-behaved boy at school. He comes up with some of the most thought-provoking questions. He is a perfectionist and a worrier, but we are praying that he can overcome those traits that I am sure I have passed onto him unknowingly. His bedtime prayer last night was so heartfelt and sweet. He knows that God can help him through anything.
When James was in Kindergarten he would come home and ask me why the kids didn't always behave. That was really his first experience with a large group of children his own age. His observations have prompted many great discussions over the years about how and why he should choose to do the right thing. He has daily been able to practice making the right decisions even when others might try to persuade him otherwise.
This little guy, while only having been in school for four days, has been learning a lot about following the rules and following directions. I am praying that Joshua will blossom and grow into the boy I know he can be. This first week hasn't been easy for him, but he is doing better each day.
Joseph still has three more years with me. Like I said, it has been quiet, but we are adjusting, too. Who wouldn't have fun with a boy who has a smile like that?
These four lives that God has entrusted my husband and I with are an awesome responsibility that we don't take lightly. Just because they go to public school doesn't mean that our job is over. In fact, our job is even harder because we aren't in control of every aspect of their daily lives.
We have to rely on God to not only protect our children while they are at school, but to give us the wisdom to help them know God and follow His path for them every day.
I am linking this post to Finer Things Friday at The Finer Things in Life.